Whether we like it or not, the moment we become a Christian, confessing that Christ is our Savior, we at the same time become a member of the Christian church. It makes no difference whether our names are on the church register, whether we have chosen a denomination, shared responsibilities at a church, or spend most of our time absent from worship services. We are members of Gods church because of our faith in Christ. Membership in the church is a basic fact for those who profess their love for our Savior. It isn’t an option only for those Christians that are outgoing, or people persons. Its part of the fabric of redemption.
There are many self-professed Christians who never join a local church, who refuse to respond to the call of worship each Sunday. There are some who say “ I love God but I hate the church. But, you see, God never makes private, secret salvation deals with His people. God’s relationship with us is personal, and intimate, but never private. We are a true family in Christ Jesus. When we are saved, we are among brothers and sisters in faith. No Christian is an only child.
Having said that, understand that just because we are a family of faith, it does not mean that we are one big happy family. The people we encounter as family in faith are not always nice people. They don’t stop being sinners the moment they believe in Christ. They don’t suddenly change into brilliant conversationalists, amazing inspirations, or great companions. Some are dull, cranky, and quite frankly a drag. But just the same, God tells us they are our brothers and sisters in faith. If God is our father, then this is our family.
So the question is not “Am I going to be a part of the community?” but “How am I going to live in this community?” As God’s children, we do different things. Some run away from it and pretend that the family doesn’t exist. Some go out on their own and then occasionally show up for parties, or bring gifts to let everyone know they still care. Some would never leave but cause others to dream it for them, for they are all the time criticizing the food, the housekeeping and complaining about the others in the family. And some, determined to find out what God has in mind by placing them in this community called a church, learn how to function in it harmoniously and with joy, and develop the maturity that enables them to share and exchange Gods grace with those who might otherwise be viewed as nuisances.
As we come to declare our love for Christ, we must face the lovely as well as the unlovely fellow sinners who God loves and commands us to love. This is not to be treated like something we are supposed to put up with, one of the inconvenient necessities of faith in the way that paying taxes is an inconvenient consequence of living in a secure nation. It is not just necessary; it is desirable that our faith have a social dimension, a human relationship
A few weeks ago, I was reading a book, and the author, a pastor, shared this interesting story. He stated that, one of the afflictions of being a pastor has been to listen, with a straight face, to all the reasons people give for not going to church. “My mother made me go when I was little.” “There are too many hypocrites in the church.” “ it’s the only day I have to sleep in.” He said there was a time when he responded to such statements with simple arguments that exposed them as flimsy excuses. Then he noticed that it didn’t make any difference. If he showed the inadequacy of one excuse, three more would pop up in its place. So he doesn’t respond anymore. He listens (with a straight face) and goes home to pray that person will one day find the one sufficient reason for going to church, which is God.
If we stay home by ourselves and read the Bible, we are going to miss a lot, for our reading will be unconsciously conditioned by our culture, limited by our ignorance, and distorted by our unnoticed prejudices. In worship we are part of “ the large congregation” where all the writers of Scripture address us, where song writers use music to express truths that touch us, not only in our heads but in our hearts, where the preacher who has just lived through six days of doubt, hurt, faith and blessing with the worshipers, speaks the truth of Scripture in the language of the congregation’s present experience. We want to hear what God says and what he says to us. Worship is the place where our attention is centered on these personal and decisive words of God.
We live in an age where we are reluctant to do anything if we can’t demonstrate its practical usefulness. Its inevitable that we ask the question about worship. Is it worth it? Can we justify the time, energy, and expense involved in gathering Christians together in worship? What is your response? Please pray about the answer, both for you and for our “family in faith”.